Advent Retreat Week Two: Examining the Fruits
Hello friends! I hope your Advent has been off to a great start. My social media fast has been much, much harder than anticipated, which I guess only emphasizes the importance of doing it! I pray that you’ve been able to find silence and peace in this first week of Advent.
This week, I want to reflect on the fruits of the Spirit, fruits that we hope to have present in our lives. St. Paul lays out the fruits of the Spirit in his letter to the Galatians (Chapter 5):
Reflecting on this passage always makes me wonder how I’m allowing the fruits of the Spirit to be present in my life. I reflect on the activities I pursue, the people I spend time with, the dreams I have, and the choices I make. Are these things increasing love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and self control in my life? Or do they make me jealous, angry, selfish, or reveal other idols in my heart?
For example, there are TV shows that I used to LOVE, but don’t watch anymore because they affect my mind and heart in ways that don’t reflect the fruits of the Spirit. There are people that I used to hang out with that increased a spirit of jealousy and often led me to gossip or do things I wouldn’t normally in order to be accepted and fit in. Our world is filled with opportunities to shut off these graces, and these good gifts of the Holy Spirit require us to be present to them and invite them in. The Lord never enters without our permission – in the same way, the fruits of the Spirit are always available to us, as long as we let them in.
This week, I encourage you to use your evening time in silence to reflect on your day. In what ways were the fruits of the Spirit present? Did you experience love, patience, generosity, or self-control in a new and beautiful way? In a similar way, did you experience the wounds of the flesh: were you envious, selfish, unkind, or impatient? Can you isolate the places and events that brought about these fruits?
I don’t know about you, but I will take all of the peace and patience I can get. If that means staying off of Instagram for Advent, then I’m okay with that. What small change can you make this week to let the fruits of the Spirit permeate your heart and help you prepare for the coming of Jesus?
God bless, and I’ll see you next week!
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